离开人生，哲学是空洞的，离开哲学，人生是盲目的
哲学可以帮助我们更好地审视自身，不随波逐流，建立一个稳定的内在自我。
哲学不仅仅是回答为什么的学问。
我是谁？我从哪儿来？我要到哪里去？
这三大哲学终极问题在有些人看来很可笑——生活的烦恼已经足够多了，哪来的时间去思考这些抽象的大问题呢？
但其实我们生活中许多的烦恼，比如职业的选择、身份的焦虑、情感的迷茫等等，它的解决路径就藏身在一个更大的“道理”之中，而这个“道理”就是哲学。
人是社会性动物，除了理解自身，哲学的另一个重要价值是审视个人与社会及所处世界的关系。
当经济发展到一定程度，人与人之间，个人与公共世界之间开始疏离，陷入利己主义的小圈子。人在社会规范失灵，道德水准下降，当人际联接的纽带丧失后，各种社会制约因素也消解了。
人的生存失去了绝对的标准，此时此刻，需要做的就是：重建价值。
人与人，人与社会之间应该有怎样的关系？他人有权期待我们做什么？我们有权期待他人或者国家做什么？
哲学会为我们解答这些问题，它是我们内心的一把标尺，帮助我们重新评估价值，建立标准。
哲学家伽达默尔说：“如果要走上哲学之路，不能从海德格尔开始，而至少要从亚里士多德开始。”
亚里士多德一生著有许多著作，是古代的百科全书，逻辑学、修辞学、物理学、生物学、教育学、心理学、政治学、经济学和美学等诸多领域。
除此之外，他的更重要的标签就是一个伟大的哲学家：亚里士多德是古希腊哲学集大成者，他创立了形式逻辑学，丰富并发展了哲学的各个分支学科，其理论统治西方宗教和世俗生活千年之久，是读懂西方思想体系绕不过的灵魂人物。
亚里士多德虽然生活在两千五百年前的古希腊，但他的思想对今天的人们依然适用，并且他对事物的理解也比我们大多数人都要深刻。
举个例子，你没有汽车，但你想买一辆，而汽车的价格超出了你的经济范围能力，所以你需要想办法弄到更多的钱买车。怎么弄到更多的钱呢？你可以自己努力赚钱，你也可以借钱，也可以攒钱。
在这个例子中，想要买车是目的，而得到钱是手段，但得到钱的方法多种多样，它同时也是一种目的。
一件事情，它既可以是目的，也可以是手段。
那么是否有这样的东西我们渴望得到它，不为别的，就是因为它本身的原因？
亚里士多德认为有纯粹的手段，也有既是手段又是目的的目的，也有一些是纯粹的目的，是我们追求的唯一目标。
回到开头那个例子，买车是目的，但也是手段，买车的目的或许是为了开车上班，那么开车上班又是为了什么呢？
目的因人而异，可在现实生活中，人往往受到外物的影响，混淆了目的和手段，忘了自己的初衷，多问几次自己的目的是什么，才能保持清醒，不断逼近心中的那个答案。
关于人与社会的关系，亚里士多德认为，能让人凝聚成家庭，让家庭凝聚成更大社会的理由就是人们会在这个更大、更包容的联盟中有所获益。
比如家庭最初的形成是人们需要待在一起以保护和养育后代，国家则由无数个家庭组成，他的目的是为了让其成员能过上美好生活。
而维持这个联盟，联系一个国家人与人之间的纽带是：公正。
何为公正？
亚里士多德认为，不阻止、不干涉、不妨碍他人努力获得他们真正需要的好东西，这是公正，而帮助他们获得这样的好东西，这就上升到了爱。
公正是义务，而爱是馈赠。
人与人之间不可能都有爱，所以才需要公正，因为要公正，才要制定法律规范公民应该做什么，不应该做什么。
说到这里，不难看出，亚里士多德的哲学思想探讨的都是人类最基本的问题，与我们的生活息息相关。
其实，哲学本就是来源于对生活的思考，它并没有那么复杂，只是我们生活的世界太复杂，哲学帮助我们拨开重重迷雾，回归事物本质去思考问题。
接下来我会以简短的话语列举哲学家的有趣思想
美德即智慧 —苏格拉底
知道自己什么都不知道—提问？
柏拉图：欲望、情感、知识(哲学之王)
超级学校：
体育、音乐(10)、身体、心灵、品质—(30岁)、哲学、实践(50岁)
拆散家庭单位——共产主义
亚里士多德：我爱我师，但我更爱真理。
逻辑学、政治学、美学、形而上学。
第一次大规模知识汇总。(错误谬论多、无科学实验设备)—中庸之道（希腊）
斯多葛学派：无欲望(罗马)
培根：实用主义者、爱情障碍、知识就是力量。
现代科学的模样、心理学、自然科学、哲学
培根的知识杂而不精
犹太人：斯宾罗莎、笛卡尔的影响(定义上帝）
上帝：世界法则本身，不是精神也不是物质，质疑圣经的真实性。关注人性
言论自由、民主制、政治体制形式不重要
伏尔泰：身体差、84、丑 有了伏尔泰，法国才有了思想。
情人：历史无聊……琐事，无关联……
没解决问题 读古希腊罗马的历史……
只有哲学家才有资格写历史。
非战争而是社会，不关注帝王，通过野蛮迈向文明。
改革：教育
风俗论：神学让位，历史上位。
封建贵族制度到
卢梭：革命（伏尔泰野蛮的家伙）、社会的契约论（伏尔泰维护卢梭）
公元前500——18世纪
→_→
德国哲学家康德(18世纪)：纯粹理想批判
叔本华：读不懂康德，只能算个孩子。
培根：科学
伏尔泰：理想和启蒙运动
康德时代背景：
怀疑论休谟被驳斥，有些认识独立于感官，先验，先于经验存在。
2+2=4为什么？ 心灵——感觉——时间和空间，非简单的学问。
先验辩证法，二律背反。
宇宙的边界：
A和B完全相反、但无法验证。
局限性的方法和经验验证非局限性的空间和时间。
我们能探索的科学取决于先天的结构。
黑格尔：黑格尔和僧侣比赛
辩证：斗争
发展—矛盾—平和
一句话概括哲学：我输了
叔本华：德国悲观主义哲学家
法国大革命失败、拿破仑、
拜伦、普希金、
家庭：17父亲去世、歌德认为叔本华是天才,并极力介绍，但叔本华母亲作为优秀且自负的作家,结果因为意见不合,把儿子从楼梯摔下去。
叔本华本人也有些自大、睡觉佩戴手枪、受不了噪音
抨击黑格尔，继承了父亲的遗产。
生命意志：理性之下的深处、逻辑说服，欲望和意志。
理性的动物重复，难道不会理性的反思吗？
被本能支配者，爱情是一件搞笑的事情，大自然设置的骗局。
欲望一个一个的追求下去，
停下来就无聊，就有痛苦和不幸。
人生是个摆钟，痛苦和无聊之中不断摆动。
发疯是逃避痛苦的避难所，自杀则是人类最后的避难所，但自杀也是没用的，自杀只代表一个人战胜自身的求生意志。但人类和人类的意志，仍然存在。
康德+东方佛教=叔本华 人生的终极智慧是涅槃。
把人降低到欲望和意志的最低点。学会向世界屈服。这样就能减少痛苦。为后代克服升值的欲望。别生孩子了，人类就到此为止吧。这样人类的悲剧自然也就结束了。
杜兰特：可以理解
斯宾塞（进化论)：实证主义，适者生存。
尼采（德国诗人哲学家：在这场被我们成为生命的战斗中，我们需要的不是善良，而是力量，不是谦卑，而是骄傲，不是利他，而是利己。民主是对生存的反动。天才和超人才是进化的目的，平庸的大众自然应当被淘汰，命运的裁决者不是正义，而是权利。
叔本华：生命意志—被动、悲观
尼采：权利意志—主动、勇敢
基督教不能为战争辩护，达尔文主义可以，尼采也可以。
道德和神学必须根据进化论重建，生命的职责不是要照顾大多数人，而是为了培养个提升最优秀的天才少数人。这才是人类进化的方向。上帝已经死了，人类进化的目标是成为超人。在尼采眼中，以基督教思想为代表的传统道德是奴隶的道德。主张顺从、和平安于贫穷。古罗马人的美德才接近真正的道德，代表着男子气概，勇气，冒险，胆识。
现实：疾病、焦躁而变得孤独。最终陷入了疯狂，1900年去世。
现代哲学：物理学、斗争 唯物主义的
罗素：数理逻辑、科学
神秘主义：道德模糊
1920年罗素梁启超邀请去过中国。
杜威：1859—1952 反对形而上学、全盘接受进化论、不信叔本华、信培根斯宾塞，伦理和政治方面，发展是人间最高的美德，做好人不光是不能害人，如果你善良却无能，那也是个很差劲的家伙。无知不是幸福，而是奴性和麻木，只有智慧才能让我们把握自己的命运，并且他会通过知识启迪我们的行为。
民主制度：民主制度有很多缺点，但多元化。
Without life, philosophy is empty, without philosophy, life is blind.
Philosophy can help us better examine ourselves, not follow the crowd, and build a stable inner self.
Philosophy is not just the science of answering why.
who I am? Where am I from? Where am I going?
These three ultimate philosophical questions seem ridiculous to some people-there are enough troubles in life, where is the time to think about these abstract big questions?
But in fact, many troubles in our lives, such as career choice, identity anxiety, emotional confusion, etc., its solution path is hidden in a larger "reason", and this "reason" is philosophy.
Human beings are social animals. In addition to understanding ourselves, another important value of philosophy is to examine the relationship between individuals, society and the world in which they live.(no man is an island)
When the economy develops to a certain level, people begin to become alienated from each other, from the individual to the public world, and fall into a small circle of egoism. People's social norms fail and their moral standards decline. When the bonds of interpersonal connection are lost, various social constraints are also eliminated.
Philosophy will answer these questions for us. It is a yardstick in our hearts, helping us to re-evaluate values and establish standards.
The philosopher Gadamer said: "If you want to embark on the road of philosophy, you cannot start with Heidegger, but at least start with Aristotle."
Aristotle wrote many works throughout his life, which are ancient encyclopedias, including logic, rhetoric, physics, biology, education, psychology, political science, economics and aesthetics, and many other fields.
In addition, his more important label is a great philosopher: Aristotle is a master of ancient Greek philosophy. He founded formal logic, enriched and developed various branches of philosophy, and his theory ruled Western religion and secular life have been around for thousands of years, and they are the soul figures that cannot be bypassed when understanding Western ideology.
Although Aristotle lived in ancient Greece 2,500 years ago, his ideas are still applicable to people today, and his understanding of things is deeper than most of us.
For example, you don't have a car, but you want to buy one, and the price of the car is beyond your financial means, so you need to find a way to get more money to buy a car. How to get more money? You can work hard to make money yourself, you can also borrow money, or you can save money.
In this example, wanting to buy a car is the goal, and getting money is the means, but there are many ways to get money, and it is also an end.
A thing can be both an end and a means.
Is there then something that we desire for no other reason than itself?
Aristotle believed that there are pure means, there are ends that are both means and ends, and some are pure ends, the only ends we pursue.
Going back to the example at the beginning, buying a car is the purpose, but it is also a means. The purpose of buying a car may be to drive to work, so what is the purpose of driving to work?
The purpose varies from person to person, but in real life, people are often influenced by external objects, confuse the purpose and means, forget their original intentions, and ask themselves what their purpose is a few times, so that they can stay awake and keep approaching the goal in their hearts. that answer.
Regarding the relationship between man and society, Aristotle believed that the reason for uniting people into families and families into larger societies is that people benefit from this larger and more inclusive union.
For example, a family was originally formed because people needed to stay together to protect and raise their offspring, and a country is composed of countless families whose purpose is to enable its members to live a good life.
And to maintain this alliance, the link between people in a country is: justice.
What is justice?
Aristotle believes that it is justice not to prevent, not interfere, or hinder others from trying to obtain the good things they really need, and to help them obtain such good things rises to love.
Justice is an obligation, but love is a gift.
It is impossible to have love between people, so justice is needed, because to be fair, laws must be formulated to regulate what citizens should and should not do.
Speaking of this, it is not difficult to see that Aristotle’s philosophical thoughts discuss the most basic problems of human beings, which are closely related to our lives.
In fact, philosophy comes from thinking about life. It is not that complicated, but the world we live in is too complicated. Philosophy helps us get rid of the fog and return to the essence of things to think about problems.
Next I will list interesting thoughts of philosophers in short words
Virtue is wisdom - Socrates
Knowing that one knows nothing - asking questions?
Plato: Desire, Passion, Knowledge (King of Philosophy)
Super school:
Physical Education, Music (10), Body, Mind, Quality - (30 years old), Philosophy, Practice (50 years old)
Breaking Up the Family Unit - Communism
Aristotle: I love my teacher, but I love truth more.
Logic, politics, aesthetics, metaphysics.
The first large-scale knowledge aggregation. (Many fallacies, no scientific experimental equipment) - The Golden Mean (Greece)
Stoicism: Desireless (Rome)
Bacon: The pragmatist, the obstacle to love, knowledge is power.
Appearance of modern science, psychology, natural science, philosophy
Bacon's knowledge is mixed but not refined
The Jews: The Influence of Spencer Rosa, Descartes (Defining God)
God: the law of the world itself, neither spirit nor matter, calls into question the authenticity of the Bible. concern about humanity
Free Speech, Democracy, Form of Political System Don't Matter
Voltaire: Poor health, 84, ugly With Voltaire, France has thought.
Lover: history is boring... trivia, irrelevant...
Didn't solve the problem Read the history of ancient Greece and Rome...
Only philosophers are qualified to write history.
It's not war but society, don't pay attention to the emperor, and move towards civilization through barbarism.
Reform: Education
Mannerism: Theology gives way to history.
feudal aristocracy to
Rousseau: Revolution (Voltaire the Savage), The Contract Theory of Society (Voltaire defends Rousseau)
500 BC - 18th century
→_→
German Philosopher Kant (18th Century): Critique of the Pure Ideal
Schopenhauer: If you don't understand Kant, you can only be considered a child.
Bacon: Science
Voltaire: The Ideal and the Enlightenment
Kant's background:
Skeptical Hume was refuted, some cognition independent of the senses, a priori, prior to the existence of experience.
2+2=4Why? Mind-feeling-time and space are not simple knowledge.
Transcendental dialectics, antinomy.
The boundaries of the universe:
A and B are completely opposite, but cannot be verified.
Constrained methods and empirical validation in unconstrained space and time.
The science we can explore depends on innate structure.
Hegel: Hegel and the Monk Competition
Dialectic: Struggle
Development - Contradiction - Peace
Philosophy summed up in one sentence: I lost
Arthur Schopenhauer: German Pessimistic Philosopher
The failure of the French Revolution, Napoleon,
Byron, Pushkin,
Family: 17 Father died, Goethe thought Schopenhauer was a genius, and tried his best to introduce him, but Schopenhauer's mother, as an excellent and conceited writer, threw her son down the stairs because of disagreements.
Schopenhauer himself is a bit arrogant, sleeps with a pistol, and can't stand the noise
Bashing Hegel, inheriting his father's legacy.
The Will to Live: Depths Below Reason, Logical Persuasion, Desire and Will.
Rational animals repeat, don't they think rationally?
Dominated by instinct, love is a funny thing, a deception set by nature.
Desires pursue one by one,
When it stops there is boredom, there is pain and unhappiness.
Life is a pendulum clock, constantly swinging between pain and boredom.
Madness is a refuge from suffering, and suicide is the last refuge of human beings, but suicide is also useless. Suicide only represents a person's victory over his own will to survive. But the human being and the human will, still exist.
Kant + Eastern Buddhism = Schopenhauer The ultimate wisdom of life is Nirvana.
Lowers man to the lowest point of desire and will. Learn to surrender to the world. This reduces pain. Overcome the desire for appreciation for future generations. Stop having children, and that's the end of humanity. In this way, the human tragedy will naturally end.
Durant: understandable
Spencer (Evolution): Positivism, survival of the fittest.
Nietzsche (German poet-philosopher: In this battle we call life, what we need is not kindness but strength, not humility but pride, not altruism but self-interest. Democracy is a reaction against existence. Genius The purpose of evolution is to be superhuman and superhuman, and the mediocre masses should naturally be eliminated. The arbiter of fate is not justice, but rights.
Schopenhauer: The Will to Live—Passive, Pessimistic
Nietzsche: Will to Power—Active, Courageous
Christianity cannot justify war, Darwinism can, and so can Nietzsche.
Morality and theology must be reconstructed in terms of evolution, and the duty of life is not to take care of the majority, but to raise the best gifted few. This is the direction of human evolution. God is dead, and the goal of human evolution is to become superhuman. According to Nietzsche, the traditional morality represented by Christian thought is slave morality. Advocate obedience, peace and poverty. The virtues of the ancient Romans are close to real morality, representing manliness, courage, adventure, and courage.
Reality: Illness, anxiety and becoming lonely. Eventually he fell into madness and died in 1900.
Modern Philosophy: Physics, Struggle, Materialism
Russell: Mathematical logic, science
Mysticism: Moral Ambiguity
Russell Liang Qichao invited him to China in 1920.
Dewey: 1859-1952 opposed to metaphysics, fully accepted the theory of evolution, did not believe in Schopenhauer, and believed in Bacon and Spencer. In terms of ethics and politics, development is the highest virtue in the world. Being a good person is not only about not being able to harm others. If you are kind but incompetent, then Also a very bad guy. Ignorance is not happiness, but slavishness and numbness. Only wisdom can let us control our own destiny, and he will enlighten our behavior through knowledge.
Democracy: Democracy has many shortcomings, but plural.
In fact, philosophy comes from thinking about life. It is not that complicated, but the world we live in is too complicated. Philosophy helps us get rid of the fog and return to the essence of things to think about problems.
Next I will list interesting thoughts of philosophers in short words
Virtue is wisdom - Socrates
Knowing that one knows nothing - asking questions?
Plato: Desire, Passion, Knowledge (King of Philosophy)
Super school:
Physical Education, Music (10), Body, Mind, Quality - (30 years old), Philosophy, Practice (50 years old)
Breaking Up the Family Unit - Communism
Aristotle: I love my teacher, but I love truth more.
Logic, politics, aesthetics, metaphysics.
The first large-scale knowledge aggregation. (Many fallacies, no scientific experimental equipment) - The Golden Mean (Greece)
Stoicism: Desireless (Rome)
Bacon: The pragmatist, the obstacle to love, knowledge is power.
Appearance of modern science, psychology, natural science, philosophy
Bacon's knowledge is mixed but not refined
The Jews: The Influence of Spencer Rosa, Descartes (Defining God)
God: the law of the world itself, neither spirit nor matter, calls into question the authenticity of the Bible. concern about humanity
Free Speech, Democracy, Form of Political System Don't Matter
Voltaire: Poor health, 84, ugly With Voltaire, France has thought.
Lover: history is boring... trivia, irrelevant...
Didn't solve the problem Read the history of ancient Greece and Rome...
Only philosophers are qualified to write history.
It's not war but society, don't pay attention to the emperor, and move towards civilization through barbarism.
Reform: Education
Mannerism: Theology gives way to history.
feudal aristocracy to
Rousseau: Revolution (Voltaire the Savage), The Contract Theory of Society (Voltaire defends Rousseau)
500 BC - 18th century
→_→
German Philosopher Kant (18th Century): Critique of the Pure Ideal
Schopenhauer: If you don't understand Kant, you can only be considered a child.
Bacon: Science
Voltaire: The Ideal and the Enlightenment
Kant's background:
Skeptical Hume was refuted, some cognition independent of the senses, a priori, prior to the existence of experience.
2+2=4 Two plus two equals four. Why? Mind-feeling-time and space are not simple knowledge.
Transcendental dialectics, antinomy.
The boundaries of the universe:
A and B are completely opposite, but cannot be verified.
Constrained methods and empirical validation in unconstrained space and time.
The science we can explore depends on innate structure.
Hegel: Hegel and the Monk Competition
Dialectic: Struggle
Development - Contradiction - Peace
Philosophy summed up in one sentence: I lost
Schopenhauer: German Pessimistic Philosopher
The failure of the French Revolution, Napoleon,
Byron, Pushkin,
Family: 17 Father died, Goethe thought Schopenhauer was a genius, and tried his best to introduce him, but Schopenhauer's mother, as an excellent and conceited writer, threw her son down the stairs because of disagreements.
Schopenhauer himself is a bit arrogant, sleeps with a pistol, and can't stand the noise
Bashing Hegel, inheriting his father's legacy.
The Will to Live: Depths Below Reason, Logical Persuasion, Desire and Will.
Rational animals repeat, don't they think rationally?
Dominated by instinct, love is a funny thing, a deception set by nature.
Desires pursue one by one,
When it stops there is boredom, there is pain and unhappiness.
Life is a pendulum clock, constantly swinging between pain and boredom.
Madness is a refuge from suffering, and suicide is the last refuge of human beings, but suicide is also useless. Suicide only represents a person's victory over his own will to survive. But the human being and the human will, still exist.
Kant + Eastern Buddhism = Schopenhauer The ultimate wisdom of life is Nirvana.
Lowers man to the lowest point of desire and will. Learn to surrender to the world. This reduces pain. Overcome the desire for appreciation for future generations. Stop having children, and that's the end of humanity. In this way, the human tragedy will naturally end.
Durant: understandable
Spencer (Evolution): Positivism, survival of the fittest.
Nietzsche (German poet-philosopher: In this battle we call life, what we need is not kindness but strength, not humility but pride, not altruism but self-interest. Democracy is a reaction against existence. Genius The purpose of evolution is to be superhuman and superhuman, and the mediocre masses should naturally be eliminated. The arbiter of fate is not justice, but rights.
Schopenhauer: The Will to Live—Passive, Pessimistic
Nietzsche: Will to Power—Active, Courageous
Christianity cannot justify war, Darwinism can, and so can Nietzsche.
Morality and theology must be reconstructed in terms of evolution, and the duty of life is not to take care of the majority, but to raise the best gifted few. This is the direction of human evolution. God is dead, and the goal of human evolution is to become superhuman. According to Nietzsche, the traditional morality represented by Christian thought is slave morality. Advocate obedience, peace and poverty. The virtues of the ancient Romans are close to real morality, representing manliness, courage, adventure, and courage.
Reality: Illness, anxiety and becoming lonely. Eventually he fell into madness and died in 1900.
Modern Philosophy: Physics, Struggle, Materialism
Russell: Mathematical logic, science
Mysticism: Moral Ambiguity
Russell Liang Qichao invited him to China in 1920.
Dewey: 1859-1952 opposed to metaphysics, fully accepted the theory of evolution, did not believe in Schopenhauer, and believed in Bacon and Spencer. In terms of ethics and politics, development is the highest virtue in the world. Being a good person is not only about not being able to harm others. If you are kind but incompetent, then Also a very bad guy. Ignorance is not happiness, but slavishness and numbness. Only wisdom can let us control our own destiny, and he will enlighten our behavior through knowledge.
Democracy: Democracy has many shortcomings, but plural.
I think, therefore I am
I was swept away by the waves and nearly drowned
In my opinion, I strongly support the return of society to matriarchal society.（matriarchal clan society) patriarchal society
The technological revolution of agricultural civilization and industrial civilization has become history. With the rapid popularization of the digital age, most people live in an era of nakedness like transparent people, and are gradually losing trust between people and between people and groups. Civilization and culture will also become victims of politics one after another. I don't believe in evolution or the law of the jungle(survival of the fittest), but I believe in love.
Returning to the matriarchal society will at least have more love and the ability to love others, because love is the most beneficial guarantee for maintaining life. Human civilization can continue precisely because women choose and endure a lot. Nowadays, some countries do not reproduce human beings. The scepter is given to women to choose, but it is attached to rights. In fact, when civilization reaches a relatively high level and respects life, it can still be restrained by the power of faith. In addition to restraining the evil of human nature, faith should also respect nature, respect laws, and respect cycles. , is not an era of physical strength, but male rulers weave this huge history of civilization decline and decline with power, material and beautiful dreams. Every individual is like dust(speck) on the state machine.
This kind of injustice, looking around, is all over the world, life and culture, death and desire, let Caesar's return to Caesar, let nature return to nature, that's all.
quotation of julius caesar
When man has tasted freedom, he is bound by it.
Taste the taste of power, and be captured by power.
For man is born free, but everywhere he is in chains.
Therefore, enjoy the moment, experience is more important.
This I Believe II
me before you | my EM teacher recommanded me
will：
Clarke：
you cant change someone ，you love them.
- Your heart is as big as a castle, and I love your feeling like a princess
- But I'm not your prince in the end, so the world may be better off without me in the future, but I'm everywhere, because love is always there
- I hope you will always be happy, no matter who you leave, the castle will keep the secret for love, and I will keep the memory for you.
I love you and then lose you.
I don't regret loving you, and I face losing you calmly.
If I could do it all over again, I would still love you.
I like the change you bring me,
I like the movies and books you watch,
Loved all the scenery we saw together.
I will not stay together for you all my life, because I know that you will smile in heaven when I am happy.
" I'll remember you and fall in love with someone else."